I'm a hardworking, self-employed remodeling contractor struggling to recover financially after losing my mother, and spending hundreds of dollars every week just getting to work is keeping me from getting ahead. A depend
The story
My name is Frank, and I'm a self-employed remodeling contractor in Galveston, Texas. I do painting, flooring, repairs, and renovations. I've always believed that hard work would eventually get me ahead, but lately, no matter how much I work, I can't seem to catch up. Asking strangers for help isn't easy for me, but I'm running out of ways to change my situation on my own.
For years, I worked for other people who would stop by a job once or twice a day while I handled most of the actual remodeling. I was paid a small fraction of what my labor was worth. Eventually, I decided to work for myself so I could build something of my own. I have the skills and experience, but having the ability to do the work and having the resources to run a business are two very different things.
My mother died unexpectedly, and financially I never recovered. She had paid into a $20,000 life insurance policy for years. The month before she died, a check she was waiting for was delayed, her payment was missed, and the policy lapsed. The insurer didn't pay the benefit. I was left grieving and trying to handle everything alone. I don't have family left to turn to. I asked for help at the time, but none came, so I kept working and did my best to manage.
Ever since, I've been roughly a month behind on my bills. I pay one overdue expense and another comes due. I can't build savings because I'm always catching up. To keep money coming in, I sometimes accept remodeling jobs for only a quarter to half of what other contractors might charge. I know I need to charge more, but it's difficult to turn down work when basic bills are overdue.
The biggest obstacle is transportation. I don't own a vehicle. In the past, people I worked for often ordered Ubers for me and then deducted every ride from my pay. Now I often book rides myself. Either way, I've spent hundreds of dollars a week just getting to job sites, sometimes over $400. It's hard to get ahead when so much of what I earn disappears simply getting to work. Without a vehicle, I also can't easily carry tools and materials or pick up helpers who don't have transportation. I end up doing jobs alone that would be much faster with a crew, limiting how much work I can take on.
The house I'm living in needs serious repairs, too. I'm capable of doing much of the labor myself and have offered to do it free if the owner provides materials, but that hasn't happened. I can't afford the materials or the cost of moving somewhere else. I rarely go anywhere except work. New clothes are out of reach, and even grocery shopping means choosing what I can afford instead of what I'd like. I'm not looking for luxuries. I just want a safe place to live, a way to work, and some stability.
I've also included before-and-after photographs of actual remodeling projects I've personally worked on.
I'm sharing pictures of my work because I want people to see that I'm not asking for help because I don't want to work. I'm asking because I want to be able to keep working and build a stable future.
I'm asking for help toward a $10,000 goal, based on these estimated needs:
- $5,500 for a dependable used vehicle.
- $1,000 for insurance, taxes, registration, and getting it road-ready.
- $2,000 toward overdue essential bills.
- $1,000 for needed home repair materials, with the owner's permission.
- $500 as a small emergency reserve.
Actual costs may vary. Transportation is the most urgent need because every week without a vehicle means more of my earnings go toward rides.
I don't expect anyone to give me $10,000 personally, and every contribution would be appreciated. A dependable vehicle would let me keep more of what I earn, carry tools, bring helpers, reach more customers, and build a sustainable business rather than constantly struggling to get through the next week.
I'd also be grateful for mentorship from an experienced entrepreneur or someone knowledgeable about business finance. I want to learn how to price my work properly, manage money, obtain financing responsibly, and build lasting financial security. I'm willing to do the work. I'm asking for the chance to make that work count, and someday be in a position to help someone else.
I don't want to spend the rest of my life asking for help. I just want an opportunity to build a life where I don't have to.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story.
Frank
Fundraising transparency: I'm sharing my story on more than one fundraising platform to reach more people. My overall fundraising goal is $10,000 across all platforms combined, not $10,000 from each one. I'll provide updates on the combined progress and how the donations are helping.
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Grieving your mother and losing the policy she paid into for years is a double blow. Hoping the work keeps coming and the driving costs stop eating your earnings.
Your before and after photos show real craft, and wanting to keep working rather than stop is the heart of this. Praying a dependable vehicle comes your way so the rides stop eating your earnings.
Self-employed work takes everything, and hundreds of dollars a week just to reach a jobsite wears a person down. Hoping the travel costs ease and the work keeps coming.
You are not asking for luxuries, just a way to keep working, and that comes through clearly. Hoping someone with business sense comes alongside you and that the rides stop eating your week.
Getting to the point where you are the one helping others is a good thing to aim at. May the cost of getting to work drop and may your business find its footing.