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Home care fund for Ryan in Manukau

Help Ryan stay in his own home with six months of part-time care.

🇳🇿 Manukau, Auckland, New Zealand1,208 views
Alexander Gilbert
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Manukau
I'm caring for my father, who's 84. After a diagnosis of dementia Ryan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ryan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Ryan worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $700 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $260 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $260 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $180 If you're reading this, thank you.

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  • Hope things get better soon. Shared this with my family. I'm in customer support myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings

    • Praying for you. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'm in nursing myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Take care

      • sending love, Alexander. Your post was clear and honest

        • Hope it all works out, Alexander. Hope the doctors have good news. Greetings from Thủ Đức.

          • Stay strong, Alexander. I hope things turn around soon. Love from Cebu City.

            • is there anything that isn't money that would help Ryan?

              • Alexander GilbertOwnerAnswerAddress verified

                Thank you. If you're in Manukau I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Thanks for asking.

            • Take care. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Take care.

              • Hope it all works out, Alexander. Your post was clear and honest. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Greetings from Mwanza.

                • Rima Rasha DarwishPhoto verified

                  Sending strength, Alexander. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money

                  • Wanjiru Njeri MushiPhoto verified

                    hope you get there. Greetings from Fresno.

                    • Shared it with a few friends. Put this on a community board in Catania this morning. All the best.

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