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Violet and a toddler and a seven-year-old need a bridge to stability after a divorce.

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Violet P. Murphy
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Los Angeles
After a divorce in July, I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a cleaner, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a dental nurse in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,200 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,300 • Childcare and after-school care: $770 • Groceries and school meals: $670 • Course fees and exam costs: $460 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself. - Violet

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  • Pilar C. GalindoID verified

    Wishing you peace, Violet. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Blessings.

    • Noman Pavel AkterPhoto verified

      hope it all works out, Violet. Hope this works out for you. Blessings.

      • So sorry you're going through this, Violet. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Please keep us posted. Blessings.

        • Best of luck, Violet. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Take care

          • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Violet.

            • Violet P. MurphyOwnerAnswer

              Rent top-up is $1,300 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page. Thanks for asking.

          • I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of Los Angeles

            • rooting for you, Violet. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

              • I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of Los Angeles

                • Nhung Hiền TaPhoto verified

                  hang in there, Violet. This could happen to any of us. Greetings from Soweto

                  • Hope it all works out, Violet. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Greetings from Nakuru.

                    • You're not alone, Violet. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Love from Nagpur.

                      • Finn KaiserPhoto verified

                        Thinking of you. This could happen to any of us. After 17 years in engineering I know how hard it's to ask for anything. All the best

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