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Help Ruwan get through 4 hard months with a toddler and a seven-year-old

A single parent in Colombo needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Ruwan retrains.

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Ruwan Chamara Jayawardena
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Colombo
After a divorce in September, I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a part-time receptionist, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as an electrician in the evenings, which will triple my income by January, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $600 goes: • Rent top-up: $270 • Childcare and after-school care: $140 • Groceries and school meals: $90 • Course fees and exam costs: $100 If you're reading this, thank you.

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  • Aurélie Monique Thomas 🇫🇷 · $10

    “Hope things get better. Gave what I could this week. - Grenoble”

  • Daniel G. Macías 🇪🇸 · $151

    “Only $151 but hope it helps. - Madrid”

  • Manit Surachai Chanthara 🇹🇭 · $10

    “Sending love. My colleague told me about this one. - Bangkok”

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3.6(7 reviews)

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  • Paraskevi Georgia Michailidis🇬🇷Verified helper
    Made a real difference

    This experience has restored my faith in the goodness of people. The helper was professional, knowledgeable, and genuinely cared about my outcome.

  • Lyudmila Maria Lysenko🇷🇺Verified helper
    Really cared about my situation

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

  • Júlia Regina Cunha🇧🇷Verified donor
    Restored my faith in humanity

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Ramesh J. Kamath🇮🇳Verified donor
    Great help in a difficult time

    The help I received was exactly what was described and more. This person follows through on their commitments and genuinely cares about making a positive impact.

  • Satish A. Awasthi🇮🇳Verified donor
    Changed my perspective

    The support I received was beyond what I expected. Not only did they help with the immediate need, but they also provided guidance for long-term solutions. I'm forever grateful.

  • Anil L. Pandey🇮🇳Verified helper
    Went above and beyond

    This is what community support looks like. They didn't just offer generic advice; they provided personalized help tailored to my specific situation.

  • Tarun D. Gill🇮🇳Verified donor
    Would recommend to anyone

    Perfect example of someone making a real difference. They took time out of their busy schedule to help me and never made me feel like a burden.

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  • You're not alone, Ruwan. Shared it with a few friends. Please keep us posted.

    • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Ruwan.

      • Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. rent top-up comes first ($270) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid.

    • I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of Colombo.

      • Rooting for you. Looking forward to the next update. Love from Lagos

        • Thinking of you and your family. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Haarlem.

          • Sending love, Ruwan. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. I hope January is when things finally get easier. Greetings from Sheffield.

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