Skip to content
HelpBLESS
MoneyFamily & childcare

Help Petra get through 5 hard months with two young children

Petra and two young children need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

🇩🇪 Germany3,019 views
Petra Winter
Email verified
Kassel
After my partner leaving in August, I'm now raising two young children on my own. I work as a cleaner, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a teaching assistant in the evenings, which will triple my income by September, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,700 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,400 • Childcare and after-school care: $990 • Groceries and school meals: $520 • Course fees and exam costs: $790 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Petra

No updates yet. Supporters are notified when the owner posts one.

  • Marcos B. Franco 🇪🇸 · $25
  • Volkan Çelik 🇩🇪 · $25
  • Donal B. Robinson 🇮🇪 · $72

    “Hope this helps. Hope the September deadline works out. - Dublin”

  • Danjuma Samuel Kalu 🇳🇬 · $10
  • Anonymous 🇫🇷 · $10
  • Lorenzo D. Ibarra 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Konstantin Roman Bogdanov 🇷🇺 · $100
  • Rocío H. Hernández 🇺🇸 · $16.50
  • Rachel P. Tshabalala 🇿🇦 · $200

    “Happy to help. Only $200 but hope it helps. - Pretoria”

  • Sanduni Lakshmi Yapa 🇱🇰 · $50

    “Keep your head up. Hope the September deadline works out. - Negombo”

  • Anonymous 🇮🇳 · $20
  • Carmen R. Peña 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Seydou Mamadou Diallo 🇫🇷 · $25

    “Stay strong. Please keep us posted. - Nice”

  • Ryan D. Sullivan 🇺🇸 · $200
  • Diego B. Torres 🇨🇴 · $53

    “Every little bit. Shared with friends too. - Envigado”

  • Elena A. Jones 🇺🇸 · $5
  • Tâm Huy Quach 🇻🇳 · $12
  • Valentina Cruz 🇦🇷 · $25

    “Blessings - Mar del Plata”

  • Halyna Shevchuk 🇺🇦 · $66

    “Happy to help - Zaporizhzhia”

  • Shoaib Salman Siddiqui 🇵🇰 · $50

    “Thought of Petra all day after reading this. - Faisalabad”

Reviews

Only people who gave to this need, or whose offer to help was accepted, can review it.

No reviews yet.

Questions & comments

Ask before you give. Email-verified members can comment and ask questions - no donation needed.

Sign in or create a free account to join the conversation.

  • So sorry you're going through this. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Blessings.

    • Hang in there, Petra. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Entebbe.

      • So sorry you're going through this, Petra. Looking forward to the next update

        • Hanneke JansenQuestionPhoto verified

          can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Kassel.

          • Petra WinterOwnerAnswer

            Thank you. If you're in Kassel I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Let me know if you want more detail.

        • Rooting for you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Thinking of Kassel.

          • take care, Petra. I hope things turn around soon. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Blessings

            • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Petra.

              • Petra WinterOwnerAnswer

                Sure. The biggest one is rent top-up, $1,400. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one.

            • Wishing you the best. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.

              • Thinking of you and your family, Petra. Shared it with a few friends. I went through something like this 12 years ago and strangers helped me out.

                • Wishing you peace, Petra. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

                  • Keep going. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Please keep us posted

                    • Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Kassel.

                      $1,998.50 raised of $3,700

                      Give

                      More people who need help