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Help Lâm get through 4 hard months with four children

Lâm and four children need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

🇻🇳 650422, Nha Trang, Khánh Hòa, Vietnam1,680 views
Lâm Huy Lam
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Nha Trang
After my partner leaving in April, I'm now raising four children on my own. I work as a hairdresser, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by July, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $650 goes: • Rent top-up: $140 • Childcare and after-school care: $220 • Groceries and school meals: $195 • Course fees and exam costs: $95 Glad we found this place. - Lâm

Updates from Lâm

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($176 in total) I made the first payment toward course fees and exam costs. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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    “Hope things get better. Hope the July deadline works out. - Jimma”

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    “From my family to yours. Small amount but sent with love. - Mohammedia”

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  • Sending love. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry.

    • You're not alone, Lâm. This could happen to any of us. Sent it to 22 people at work.

      • Hope things get better soon, Lâm. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money

        • Mariko FujimotoAddress verified

          thinking of you. This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Derry this morning. Blessings.

          • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Lâm

            • Lâm Huy LamOwnerAnswer

              Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. rent top-up comes first ($140) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Fair thing to want to know.

          • hang in there, Lâm. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Thinking of Nha Trang.

            • Sending good thoughts. This could happen to any of us. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. All the best.

              • Stay strong, Lâm. This could happen to any of us. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Greetings from Valencia

                • Hope this works out for you. My neighbor had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Greetings from Los Angeles.

                  • Take care. Looking forward to the next update. Thinking of Nha Trang.

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