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Help Irfan get through 3 hard months with a toddler and a seven-year-old

After a divorce, Irfan is raising a toddler and a seven-year-old alone and needs $600 to stay afloat for 3 months.

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Irfan Oky Harahap
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Since a divorce in August, I'm now raising a toddler and a seven-year-old on my own. I work as a hairdresser, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as an electrician in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $600 goes: • Rent top-up: $260 • Childcare and after-school care: $175 • Groceries and school meals: $85 • Course fees and exam costs: $80 Thank you for reading my story.

Updates from Irfan

  1. Update from Medan: the plan for rent top-up is now scheduled. We're at 9% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Small update. $62 so far, I met with the landlord and confirmed the amounts.

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    “Thought of Irfan all day after reading this. - Addis Ababa”

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  • Gebre Robel MulugetaPhoto verified

    Thanks for sharing this, Irfan. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Sent it to 4 people at work. Take care.

    • I hope things turn around soon. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from San Francisco!

      • A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Tokyo.

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