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Emilia and twin daughters need a bridge to stability after my partner leaving.

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Emilia Carr
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San Diego
Since my partner leaving in July, I'm now raising twin daughters on my own. I work as a school kitchen assistant, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $3,800 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,350 • Childcare and after-school care: $590 • Groceries and school meals: $1,000 • Course fees and exam costs: $860 I'll keep this page updated with receipts as things happen. - Emilia

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  1. Thank you all. We're at 65% now ($2,477). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

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    “Stay strong - Dublin”

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    “Good luck. Only $50 but hope it helps. - São Paulo”

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    “Every little bit. Thought of Emilia all day after reading this. - Fresno”

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    “Take care of yourselves. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Augsburg”

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    “Hope it all works out. Please keep us posted. - Pretoria”

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  • Keep going. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Take care.

    • Is there anything that isn't money that would help Emilia?

      • Take care. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Put this on a community board in Coimbatore this morning. All the best.

        • Good luck, Emilia. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Thinking of San Diego.

          • Rina Sinta UtomoID verified

            Good luck, Emilia. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from Gwagwalada.

            • hope it all works out, Emilia. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I'll check back for the next update. God bless.

              • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Emilia

                • Emilia CarrOwnerAnswer

                  Sure. The biggest one is rent top-up, $1,350. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Happy to explain more.

              • Rowan D. ChavezPhoto verified

                Wishing you the best. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I went through something like this 13 years ago and strangers helped me out. Love from Cluj-Napoca.

                • Keep going, Emilia. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Thinking of San Diego!

                  • I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Wish I lived closer to Seoul so I could bring a meal. Greetings from Epe

                    • Keep going. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Thinking of San Diego.

                      • Keep going, Emilia. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My neighbor in Latina donated after I showed her your page. All the best

                        • Hope it all works out, Emilia. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Thinking of San Diego!

                          • You're not alone. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Take care!

                            • Hope it all works out, Emilia. Shared it with a few friends.

                              • Thinking of you, Emilia. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. Thinking of San Diego.

                                • Sending strength, Emilia. Hope you get there.

                                  • stay strong, Emilia. I hope things turn around soon. My husband and I read this together.

                                    • Hope it all works out. Hope you get there. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double

                                      • sending strength. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from Leeds.

                                        • This could happen to any of us. Love from Ogbomosho

                                          • Thinking of you and your family, Emilia. Shared it with a few friends. Thinking of San Diego.

                                            • Hope things get better soon. Gave what I could, wish it was more. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. All the best.

                                              • Hope you get there. Don't give up. Take care.

                                                • Thinking of you. Your post was clear and honest. After 24 years in nursing I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Love from Belo Horizonte.

                                                  • Stay strong, Emilia. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better.

                                                    • Shared this with my family. After 27 years in customer support I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Blessings

                                                      • Take care. Shared it with a few friends. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. God bless.

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