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Help Dedi get through 3 hard months with twin daughters

A single father in Medan needs help with childcare, groceries and rent while Dedi retrains.

🇮🇩 Medan, North Sumatra, Indonesia819 views
Dedi Ahmad Wardana
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Medan
Since a house fire in December, I'm now raising twin daughters on my own. I work as a care worker, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a teaching assistant in the evenings, which will triple my income by March, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $800 goes: • Rent top-up: $350 • Childcare and after-school care: $200 • Groceries and school meals: $145 • Course fees and exam costs: $105 Whatever you can give, even just sharing this page, means a lot. - Dedi

Updates from Dedi

  1. 24% there. the plan for groceries and school meals is now scheduled. Thank you.

  2. Small update. $158 so far, we've started the first stage.

  3. Quick update: $101 raised so far (13%). we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  • Zeeshan Qasim Qureshi 🇵🇰 · $25

    “Take care of yourselves. Only $25 but hope it helps. - Lahore”

  • Alexander D. May 🇨🇦 · $187
  • Gregory Hoffman 🇺🇸 · $100
  • Juan L. Velasco 🇺🇸 · $25
  • Atul W. Parmar 🇮🇳 · $35.50

    “Wishing you the best. Thought of Dedi all day after reading this. - Surat”

  • Jocelyn P. Mendoza 🇵🇭 · $37.50
  • Esteban A. Fuentes 🇦🇷 · $10
  • Anonymous 🇵🇭 · $10

    “Hang in there. Thought of Dedi all day after reading this. - Manila”

  • Anonymous 🇦🇷 · $50
  • Mercy A. Abad 🇵🇭 · $35.50
  • Luna Fox 🇺🇸 · $15

    “Only $15 but hope it helps. - Fresno”

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  • I hope things turn around soon. My neighbor in Ciudad de México donated after I showed her your page

    • Hope things get better soon, Dedi. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust

      • Stay strong, Dedi. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. God bless

        • any update on how things are going in Medan?

          • Jericho G. TomasID verified

            Sending strength. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. It's not much but it's yours. Greetings from Dallas

            • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Dedi.

              • Rent top-up is $350 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page.

            • wishing you peace. Your post was clear and honest. Thinking of Medan

              • Hang in there, Dedi. Looking forward to the next update. Blessings!

                • Sending love, Dedi. Looking forward to the next update. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. God bless

                  • Thinking of you and your family, Dedi. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. All the best.

                    • Wishing you peace, Dedi. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. All the best.

                      • Hope things get better soon, Dedi. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Thinking of Medan.

                        • looking forward to the next update. After 7 years in logistics I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Greetings from San Jose

                          • So sorry you're going through this. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My neighbor in Paris donated after I showed her your page.

                            • thinking of you and your family. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Take care.

                              • Wishing you peace, Dedi. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. I'll check back for the next update. All the best

                                • Sending good thoughts, Dedi. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My husband and I read this together. Love from Swansea

                                  • Take care. Gave what I could, wish it was more. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry!

                                    • Luis P. DíazPhoto verified

                                      hope things get better soon, Dedi. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps.

                                      • You're not alone, Dedi. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Wish I lived closer to Sydney so I could bring a meal

                                        • Praying for you. Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours.

                                          • Hope it all works out, Dedi. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Love from Grand Rapids.

                                            • Wishing you the best. Shared this with my family. Wish I lived closer to Casablanca so I could bring a meal

                                              • Hope it all works out, Dedi. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My neighbor in Depok donated after I showed her your page. Blessings.

                                                • So sorry you're going through this, Dedi. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'll check back for the next update.

                                                  • Thanks for sharing this, Dedi. Looking forward to the next update. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry.

                                                    • thanks for sharing this, Dedi. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Take care

                                                      • Hope things get better soon, Dedi. Shared this with my family. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Medan.

                                                        $530.50 raised of $800

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