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After a divorce, Carla is raising three children under 9 alone and needs $800 to stay afloat for 5 months.

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Carla P. Khumalo
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Pietermaritzburg
After a divorce in July, I'm now raising three children under 9 on my own. I work as a part-time receptionist, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by October, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Every cent is accounted for. I'll share a simple monthly breakdown. Where the $800 goes: • Rent top-up: $320 • Groceries and school meals: $250 • Childcare and after-school care: $230 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to. - Carla

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  • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Carla

    • Carla P. KhumaloOwnerAnswer

      Rent top-up is $320 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page. Happy to explain more.

  • Travis B. WelchAddress verified

    take care, Carla. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. Thinking of Pietermaritzburg.

    • Stay strong. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'm in nursing myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Thinking of Pietermaritzburg

      • Sending strength, Carla. Looking forward to the next update. Please keep us posted. Blessings.

        • Best of luck, Carla. It takes guts to ask. Well done.

          • Praying for you, Carla. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Love from Birmingham

            • Sending good thoughts, Carla. Looking forward to the next update. Wish I lived closer to Girona so I could bring a meal

              • gave what I could, wish it was more. I'll check back for the next update. Take care!

                • Take care, Carla. Shared this with my family.

                  • Alejandro D. EstradaPhoto verified

                    praying for you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Please keep us posted.

                    • best of luck. Shared it with a few friends. Greetings from Tampa

                      • stay strong, Carla. Your post was clear and honest. Blessings.

                        • praying for you. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. I'm in construction myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. God bless.

                          • Sending strength. Your post was clear and honest. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Blessings

                            • Sending strength, Carla. Shared this with my family. After 8 years in social work I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

                              • Kannan A. RaoAddress verified

                                Take care, Carla. A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon!

                                • Thinking of you, Carla. Hope you get there.

                                  • Rooting for you, Carla. Looking forward to the next update. All the best.

                                    • take care. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust

                                      • Sending strength, Carla. Your post was clear and honest.

                                        • So sorry you're going through this. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Sent it to 36 people at work. Thinking of Pietermaritzburg.

                                          • So sorry you're going through this, Carla. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

                                            • Tesfaye TesfayePhoto verified

                                              Hope things get better soon, Carla. I hope things turn around soon. After 6 years in nursing I know how hard it's to ask for anything. All the best.

                                              • Praying for you, Carla. Hope you get there. My husband and I read this together. Greetings from Bandung

                                                • sending strength. Shared this with my family. Wish I lived closer to El Paso so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Pietermaritzburg!

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