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Help Arief get through 4 hard months with twin daughters

After a divorce, Arief is raising twin daughters alone and needs $650 to stay afloat for 4 months.

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Arief Naufal Gunawan
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Jakarta
Since a divorce in August, I'm now raising twin daughters on my own. I work as a part-time receptionist, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a web developer in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $650 goes: • Childcare and after-school care: $115 • Groceries and school meals: $165 • Rent top-up: $370 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Arief

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  • Young-ho ChaAddress verified

    Stay strong, Arief. Hope you get there. Love from Surrey.

    • Ankit M. VermaQuestionPhoto verified

      Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Arief.

      • Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. childcare and after-school care comes first ($115) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Let me know if you want more detail.

    • Hope it all works out, Arief. Hope this works out for you. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

      • This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Thiruvananthapuram this morning. Thinking of Jakarta.

        • Rose F. GalangPhoto verified

          praying for you, Arief. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Sent it to 19 people at work.

          • You're not alone. I hope things turn around soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of Jakarta.

            • You're not alone, Arief. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I'll check back for the next update. Love from Rome.

              • Sending strength. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Sent it to 8 people at work. Thinking of Jakarta.

                • Sending good thoughts, Arief. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Please keep us posted!

                  • Rooting for you, Arief. Shared it with a few friends. Take care

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