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Dignity in old age: caring for Xiu

Help Xiu stay in her own home with six months of part-time care.

🇦🇺 New South Wales, Australia765 views
Zhen Shu Yao
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Sydney
I'm caring for my mother, who's 83. After a diagnosis of dementia Xiu can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Xiu desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Xiu worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $3,850 goes: • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $270 • Medication and prescriptions: $590 • Part-time carer (six months): $2,990 I hope life is good to you.

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  • Thanks for sharing this, Zhen. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Blessings.

    • Sending strength, Zhen. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings.

      • Sending strength, Zhen. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My husband and I read this together. Love from Chiang Mai

        • Keep going. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Wish I lived closer to Karachi so I could bring a meal. Greetings from Polokwane.

          • Thinking of you and your family, Zhen. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. God bless.

            • Hope it all works out. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Thinking of Sydney.

              • Get well soon. I'm in public service myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. God bless.

                • Sending strength, Zhen. Wishing Xiu a smooth procedure and a full recovery. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it

                  • You're not alone. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double

                    • Hope things get better soon, Zhen. Get well soon.

                      • Shared it with a few friends. My husband and I read this together. Love from Kharkiv.

                        • Hope it all works out, Zhen. Your post was clear and honest. After 21 years in social work I know how hard it's to ask for anything. All the best

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