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Dignity in old age: caring for Unathi

Unathi can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last August; we're asking for $1,250.

🇿🇦 South Africa755 views
Annelie F. Sithole
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Pretoria
I'm caring for my mother, who's 87. After a stroke last August Unathi can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Unathi desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Unathi worked all of her life as a factory worker, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,250 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $1,000 • Medication and prescriptions: $110 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $140 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure. - Annelie

Updates from Annelie

  1. Thank you all. We're at 9% now ($111). I'm honestly stunned. I made the first payment toward part-time carer.

  • Rolf Strand 🇸🇪 · $24.50
  • Isamu Akira Maeda 🇯🇵 · $30.50

    “Be well - Sakai”

  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $20
  • Purvi T. Vora 🇮🇳 · $10
  • Irfan Vino Handoko 🇮🇩 · $50

    “Be well. Thought of Unathi all day after reading this. - Jakarta”

  • Cooper T. Warren 🇺🇸 · $10
  • Supaporn Orawan Boonmee 🇹🇭 · $20

    “Happy to help. Only $20 but hope it helps. - Phuket”

  • Kiara W. Kumar 🇮🇳 · $31.50

    “Hope this helps. Thought of Unathi all day after reading this. - Nashik”

  • Irene B. Peña 🇨🇴 · $10
  • Carlos P. Pacheco 🇲🇽 · $10
  • Seema Mittal 🇮🇳 · $32.50
  • Anonymous 🇨🇦 · $20

    “Be well. Thought of Unathi all day after reading this.”

  • Gang Ping Tang 🇦🇺 · $18
  • Rashid Anwar Aziz 🇦🇺 · $20

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  • thinking of you and your family. Hope the doctors have good news. Greetings from Cairo.

    • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Unathi.

      • The list at the bottom is the whole picture. part-time carer (eight months) is the biggest at $1,000. Thanks for looking so closely.

    • Hope things get better soon. Shared it with a few friends. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Love from Jakarta.

      • Wishing you the best, Annelie. Hope the doctors have good news. Put this on a community board in Houston this morning. God bless

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