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Dignity in old age: caring for Thawatchai

Thawatchai, 84, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,250 for a carer and medicines.

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Kanokwan Pornpimol Phetcharat
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Bangkok
I'm caring for my father, who's 84. After a diagnosis of dementia Thawatchai can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Thawatchai desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Thawatchai worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,250 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $1,000 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $80 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $170 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it.

Updates from Kanokwan

  1. Thank you all. We're at 19% now ($232). I'm honestly stunned. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit.

  2. Wanted to say thank you properly. 8% funded and the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled. - Kanokwan

  3. Good news. Because of your gifts ($50 in total) I made the first payment toward part-time carer. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  • Nuria G. Soto ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10
  • Ricardo D. Salazar ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ด ยท $132
  • Walter C. Gray ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $50
  • Farhan Irfan Mughal ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ฐ ยท $50

    โ€œBe well. Thought of Thawatchai all day after reading this. - Faisalabadโ€

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  • how is Thawatchai doing now?

    • Thinking of you, Kanokwan. Hope you get there. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Greetings from Pune.

      • Wishing you the best, Kanokwan. Get well soon. My neighbor in Birmingham donated after I showed her your page. Thinking of Bangkok

        • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Thawatchai

          • It's all in the list in the story. part-time carer (four months) is the big one at $1,000, I'll post a receipt when it's paid. Appreciate you taking the time.

        • Rooting for you, Kanokwan. Gave what I could, wish it was more. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry

          • Hope things get better soon. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Greetings from Hamilton.

            • Wishing you the best, Kanokwan. Hope the doctors have good news. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Thinking of Bangkok

              • Wishing Thawatchai a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My neighbor in Anaheim donated after I showed her your page.

                • Keep going. Hope this works out for you. I'm in retail myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Love from Saint-Denis.

                  • Hang in there, Kanokwan. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

                    • Gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from Jakarta Barat.

                      • rooting for you. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'll check back for the next update. God bless

                        • Keep going, Kanokwan. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I went through something like this 11 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

                          • Akash N. PrajapatiPhoto verified

                            Stay strong, Kanokwan. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from Nagpur

                            • Praying for you, Kanokwan. Wishing Thawatchai a smooth procedure and a full recovery. We're a small family in Nsukka but we're thinking of you. Thinking of Bangkok.

                              $242 raised of $1,250

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