Skip to content
HelpBLESS
MoneyElderly care

Dignity in old age: caring for Teguh

Teguh can't afford the care He needs after the death of his spouse; we're asking for $750.

🇮🇩 Jakarta, DKI Jakarta, Indonesia674 views
Irma Rani Maulana
Email verified
Jakarta
I'm caring for my father, who's 91. After the death of his spouse Teguh can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Teguh desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Teguh worked all of his life as a factory worker, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $750 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $500 • Medication and prescriptions: $120 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $70 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60 I'll keep this page updated with receipts as things happen. - Irma

Updates from Irma

  1. Quick update: $42 raised so far (6%). the plan for mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is now scheduled. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  2. 12% there. I made the first payment toward mobility aids and bathroom adaptations. Thank you.

  • Marwan Rashid Khoury 🇪🇬 · $78.50
  • Dayo Lucky Ajayi 🇳🇬 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇷🇺 · $25
  • Ricardo Raimundo Lima 🇧🇷 · $32
  • Inés A. Ibarra 🇦🇷 · $10

Reviews

Only people who gave to this need, or whose offer to help was accepted, can review it.

No reviews yet.

Questions & comments

Ask before you give. Email-verified members can comment and ask questions - no donation needed.

Sign in or create a free account to join the conversation.

  • Sending good thoughts, Irma. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My neighbor in Ribeirão Preto donated after I showed her your page. Thinking of Jakarta.

    • keep going, Irma. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Take care

      • Liam J. FlemingQuestionID verified

        is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Teguh.

        • Part-time carer (three months) is $500 of it. Everything else is listed in the story and nothing outside that list comes out of this page. Let me know if you want more detail.

      • Take care, Irma. This could happen to any of us. I have a 12 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Blessings.

        • Hope it all works out, Irma. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I hope October is when things finally get easier. Take care.

          • Your post was clear and honest. After 18 years in customer support I know how hard it is to ask for anything

            • sending good thoughts, Irma. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. God bless

              • Keep going, Irma. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I went through something like this 5 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

                • Keep going. Wishing Teguh a smooth procedure and a full recovery. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Greetings from Stellenbosch.

                  • wishing you the best, Irma. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Take care

                    • Praying for you, Irma. Hope this works out for you.

                      • Thinking of you, Irma. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

                        • Hope things get better soon, Irma. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I hope October is when things finally get easier. Greetings from Corpus Christi.

                          • Best of luck, Irma. Hope this works out for you. Thinking of Jakarta

                            • Wishing you the best, Irma. Shared it with a few friends. Don't give up

                              • Henry C. WheelerPhoto verified

                                Thinking of you and your family, Irma. This could happen to any of us.

                                • Praying for you, Irma. Shared this with my family. Please keep us posted. Greetings from Tema.

                                  • stay strong, Irma. Hope you get there. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Calamba.

                                    • Wishing you the best. Your post was clear and honest. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Take care.

                                      • Wishing you peace. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Love from Pune

                                        • Stay strong, Irma. Wishing Teguh a smooth procedure and a full recovery. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Blessings.

                                          • Wishing you peace, Irma. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My mother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Love from Gaya.

                                            • Subramanian ThevarPhoto verified

                                              Stay strong. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'll check back for the next update. Greetings from Rohini

                                              • Sending strength. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. God bless.

                                                • Hang in there. I hope things turn around soon. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money!

                                                  $170.50 raised of $750

                                                  Give

                                                  More people who need help