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Dignity in old age: caring for Tarun

Help Tarun stay in his own home with eight months of part-time care.

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Rekha S. Bisht
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Mumbai
I'm caring for my father, who's 82. After the death of his spouse Tarun can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Tarun desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Tarun worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $600 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $380 • Medication and prescriptions: $90 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $45 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $85 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself. - Rekha

Updates from Rekha

  1. Thank you all. We're at 49% now ($292). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled.

  2. 45% there. I made the first payment toward medication and prescriptions. Thank you.

  3. Thank you all. We're at 18% now ($110). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

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  • wishing you peace. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from Ottawa.

    • So sorry you're going through this, Rekha. Get well soon. Blessings

      • you're not alone. Wishing Tarun a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't be hard on yourself for asking

        • Wishing you peace. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from Tel Aviv.

          • Hope things get better soon, Rekha. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Thinking of Mumbai.

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