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Dignity in old age: caring for Tanvi

Help Tanvi stay in her own home with four months of part-time care.

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Naveen F. Dhawan
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Birmingham
I'm caring for my mother, who's 90. After the death of her spouse Tanvi can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Tanvi desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Tanvi worked all of her life as a bus driver, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $3,000 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $2,450 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $350 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $200 Thank you so much.

Updates from Naveen

  1. We're at 4% thanks to 4 of you. I made the first payment toward part-time carer. More news soon.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 26% now ($770). I'm honestly stunned. we've booked the dates and paid the deposit.

  3. Good news. Because of your gifts ($930 in total) we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  • Rafael D. Dela Cruz ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $50
  • Aileen G. Garcia ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $25
  • Sharon Martin ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $15
  • Helen Hailemariam ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡น ยท $25
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $10
  • Jamal Rahman ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $100
  • Shweta Bedi ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $50
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $50
  • Junko Ayaka Sugawara ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต ยท $10
  • Horst Lehmann ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25

    โ€œSending love. Hope you get the rest soon. - Rajkotโ€

  • Uche Nonso Yusuf ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $20
  • Laura Vogel ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $34.50
  • Roman R. Harris ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10

    โ€œSending love. Please keep us posted. - Montgomeryโ€

  • Faith Williams ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $100

    โ€œStay strong. Only $100 but hope it helps. - Orlandoโ€

  • Josiah Wells ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $25
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $265
  • Ian N. Mendez ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $250

    โ€œRooting for you. Thought of Tanvi all day after reading this. - San Diegoโ€

  • Stephanie A. Coleman ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $20
  • Anika Lipi Mondal ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $100

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  • Sending love. Shared this with my family. Wish I lived closer to Munich so I could bring a meal. Take care.

    • Stella P. ThomasPhoto verified

      Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Nairobi.

      • Wishing you peace, Naveen. Looking forward to the next update. God bless.

        • Praying for you, Naveen. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Greetings from Houston.

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