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Dignity in old age: caring for Sophie

Sophie can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last September; we're asking for $3,750.

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Sophie N. Bell
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Toronto
I'm caring for me, who's 95. After a stroke last September Sophie can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Sophie desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Sophie worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $3,750 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $2,250 • Medication and prescriptions: $880 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $185 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $435 Even a small gift gets used right away and I'll thank you myself.

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    “Hope things get better. - Karlsruhe”

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    “Hope it all works out. Thought of Sophie all day after reading this. - Sheffield”

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  • wishing you peace. Looking forward to the next update. It's not much but it's yours. Thinking of Toronto

    • Bella D. OrtegaID verified

      Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Don't give up. Greetings from Gwangju.

      • Hope it all works out, Sophie. Your post was clear and honest. Love from Makati.

        • Peter Dominik SchmidtPhoto verified

          Hope it all works out. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Love from San Jose.

          • Hope things get better soon, Sophie. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My neighbor in Bogor donated after I showed her your page. Greetings from Bogor

            • Thinking of you. This could happen to any of us. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Love from Pretoria

              • keep going, Sophie. Looking forward to the next update.

                • Rooting for you, Sophie. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.

                  • Praying for you, Sophie. Hope the doctors have good news. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. All the best.

                    • Hira SyedVerified organization

                      Wishing Sophie a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

                      • Hang in there, Sophie. Looking forward to the next update. Please keep us posted. God bless

                        • So sorry you're going through this. Hope you get there. Thinking of Toronto

                          • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Thinking of Toronto

                            • Praying for you, Sophie. Your post was clear and honest. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. God bless.

                              • Thinking of you and your family, Sophie. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. God bless

                                • So sorry you're going through this. Your post was clear and honest. Love from Jimma.

                                  • Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. I have a 9 year old who wants to send good wishes too

                                    • Best of luck. This could happen to any of us. I'm in customer support myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Thinking of Toronto

                                      • Shared it with a few friends. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Howrah.

                                        • Good luck. Shared it with a few friends. Greetings from Chattogram

                                          • Krishnan B. GoudID verified

                                            Rooting for you, Sophie. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day

                                            • Hang in there, Sophie. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Love from Jakarta

                                              • Thinking of you, Sophie. I hope things turn around soon. It's not much but it's yours. Love from Madurai.

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