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Dignity in old age: caring for Rabia

Rabia can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last July; we're asking for $600.

🇵🇰 Islamabad Capital Territory, Pakistan373 views
Rizwan Hamza Jilani
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Islamabad
I'm caring for my mother, who's 95. After a stroke last July Rabia can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Rabia desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Rabia worked all of her life as a schoolteacher, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $600 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $60 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $85 • Part-time carer (eight months): $455 I hope life is good to you. - Rizwan

Updates from Rizwan

  1. Update from Islamabad: I made the first payment toward part-time carer. We're at 31% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($130 in total) the plan for mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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  • Hang in there, Rizwan. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry.

    • Hope things get better soon, Rizwan. Get well soon

      • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Love from Syracuse

        • you're not alone. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I hope October is when things finally get easier. God bless.

          • best of luck. Hope you get there. Take care

            • Wishing you peace, Rizwan. Your post was clear and honest. Don't give up. Blessings.

              • Thinking of you, Rizwan. I hope things turn around soon. Greetings from Surabaya!

                • Thinking of you, Rizwan. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Love from Latina.

                  • Thinking of you, Rizwan. Get well soon. My neighbor in Santos donated after I showed her your page. Blessings.

                    • Take care, Rizwan. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick.

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