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Dignity in old age: caring for Paolo

Paolo can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $1,000.

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Rodel L. Aquino
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Taguig
I'm caring for my father, who's 78. After a diagnosis of dementia Paolo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Paolo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Paolo worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $1,000 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $860 • Medication and prescriptions: $60 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $35 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $45 I'll pay this kindness forward the moment I'm able to.

Updates from Rodel

  1. Update from Taguig: we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. We're at 57% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Thank you all. We're at 9% now ($86). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

  3. Good news. Because of your gifts ($46 in total) I made the first payment toward medication and prescriptions. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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    “Blessings - Jinja”

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    “Get well soon! - Red Deer”

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    “Hang in there - Busan”

  • Malak Amira Kamel 🇪🇬 · $10

    “Praying for you. Thought of Paolo all day after reading this.”

  • Million Hailu Worku 🇪🇹 · $450
  • Alexandra B. Leonard 🇬🇧 · $18

    “You got this. I'm in Derry, thinking of you. - Derry”

  • Manuela Manuela Cavalcanti 🇧🇷 · $5

    “Good luck. Hope you get the rest soon. - Rio de Janeiro”

  • Justyna Konieczny 🇵🇱 · $30

    “All the best. Thought of Paolo all day after reading this.”

  • Gunawan Irfan Saputra 🇮🇩 · $10
  • Philippe Serge Baron 🇫🇷 · $41
  • Anthony Bowman 🇨🇦 · $5

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