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Dignity in old age: caring for Óscar

Óscar can't afford the care He needs after a heart attack; we're asking for $400.

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Beatriz Ávila
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Mendoza
I'm caring for my father, who's 78. After a heart attack Óscar can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Óscar desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Óscar worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $400 goes: • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $130 • Medication and prescriptions: $180 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $90 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

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  • Could you add a copy of the care agency's quote with private details blacked out?

    • Beatriz ÁvilaOwnerAnswerID verified

      Yes, I've it and I've sent it to the moderators. I'll also put a copy up in the updates with my details hidden. I'll keep the page updated.

  • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Thinking of Mendoza.

    • A colleague of mine might know someone for this in Mendoza. I'll ask around and let you know.

      • is there anything that isn't money that would help Óscar?

        • Beatriz ÁvilaOwnerAnswerID verified

          Thank you. If you're in Mendoza I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Good question.

      • Wishing Óscar a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

        • Priscila BritoPhoto verified

          Praying for you, Beatriz. This could happen to any of us. I have a 6 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Love from Setagaya.

          • Isabella J. PruittQuestionID verified

            Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Óscar.

            • You're not alone. It takes guts to ask. Well done.

              • Praying for you. This could happen to any of us.

                • How is Óscar doing now?

                  • Take care, Beatriz. Shared it with a few friends.

                    • Looking forward to the next update. I'll check back for the next update. Thinking of Mendoza.

                      • I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I went through something like this 8 years ago and strangers helped me out. Take care.

                        • good luck, Beatriz. Shared this with my family. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

                          • sending good thoughts. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier

                            • Sending love, Beatriz. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. We're a small family in Santos but we're thinking of you. Take care

                              • sending good thoughts. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Don't give up. All the best

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