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Dignity in old age: caring for Ömer

Ömer, 78, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,650 for a carer and medicines.

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Tolga Kılıç
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Istanbul
I'm caring for my father, who's 78. After worsening Parkinson's disease Ömer can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ömer desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Ömer worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,650 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $1,350 • Medication and prescriptions: $80 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $85 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $135 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure. - Tolga

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  • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Istanbul.

    • Tolga KılıçOwnerAnswer

      Sharing the link is the biggest thing. And if you know anything about part-time carer (three months), advice is welcome too. Let me know if you want more detail.

  • You're not alone. Hope the doctors have good news. My husband and I read this together. Take care

    • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Ömer

      • Tolga KılıçOwnerAnswer

        The list at the bottom is the whole picture. part-time carer (three months) is the biggest at $1,350. I'll keep the page updated.

    • Sending love. Wishing Ömer a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Greetings from Reading

      • Any chance of seeing the care agency's quote?

        • Tolga KılıçOwnerAnswer

          I sent the care agency's quote in when I posted. I'll upload a redacted copy this week.

      • Good luck. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I'm in construction myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

        • Sending love, Tolga. Wishing Ömer a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

          • Praying for you, Tolga. Your post was clear and honest. I'm in hospitality myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Love from Marseille.

            • everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

              • gave what I could, wish it was more. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. All the best.

                • Hope things get better soon, Tolga. Your post was clear and honest. I went through something like this 7 years ago and strangers helped me out.

                  • Rooting for you, Tolga. Hope you get there. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Greetings from Machakos.

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