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Dignity in old age: caring for Ochieng

Help Ochieng stay in his own home with four months of part-time care.

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Nabirye Aisha Kioko
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Dar es Salaam
I'm caring for my father, who's 91. After worsening Parkinson's disease Ochieng can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ochieng desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Ochieng worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $750 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $550 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $105 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $35 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60 Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly. - Nabirye

Updates from Nabirye

  1. Quick update: $395 raised so far (53%). I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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    โ€œAll the best. Thought of Ochieng all day after reading this. - Bhaktapurโ€

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  • Wishing Ochieng a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Love from Contagem.

    • Auma Nancy MwakyusaAddress verified

      best of luck. Shared this with my family. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Thinking of Dar es Salaam.

      $579 raised of $750

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