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Dignity in old age: caring for Neha

Neha, 79, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $750 for a carer and medicines.

🇮🇳 Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu, India1,730 views
Umesh T. Sethi
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Coimbatore
I'm caring for my mother, who's 79. After a stroke last June Neha can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Neha desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Neha worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $750 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $560 • Medication and prescriptions: $105 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $45 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $40 With deep gratitude, Umesh

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    “Stay strong - Half-Way Tree”

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    “Best of luck. Thought of Neha all day after reading this.”

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  • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Neha.

    • Umesh T. SethiOwnerAnswerID verified

      Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. part-time carer (six months) comes first ($560) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Ask me anything else.

  • Best of luck, Umesh. Hope the doctors have good news.

    • stay strong, Umesh. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. My husband and I read this together.

      • Wishing you peace. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My father had a similar thing happen so this one hit home

        • stay strong, Umesh. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Blessings.

          • Wishing you the best. Wishing Neha a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Take care.

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