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Dignity in old age: caring for Murilo

Murilo can't afford the care He needs after a fall and hip fracture; we're asking for $1,550.

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Anderson Guilherme Costa
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Ribeirão Preto
I'm caring for my father, who's 89. After a fall and hip fracture Murilo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Murilo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Murilo worked all of his life as a nurse, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,550 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $1,200 • Medication and prescriptions: $185 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $70 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $95 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure. - Anderson

Updates from Anderson

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($162 in total) the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  • Shai Avraham Shapiro 🇮🇱 · $50

    “Take care of yourselves. Hope the November deadline works out. - Beersheba”

  • Anonymous 🇧🇷 · $15

    “Take care of yourselves. Hope the November deadline works out. - Londrina”

  • Noah H. Mejia 🇦🇺 · $97

    “God bless. From Hobart with love. - Hobart”

  • Vihaan A. Chopra 🇮🇳 · $64.50

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3.4(7 reviews)

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    Went above and beyond

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

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    Changed my perspective

    Perfect example of someone making a real difference. They took time out of their busy schedule to help me and never made me feel like a burden.

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    Trustworthy helper

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

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    Amazing support system

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

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    Went above and beyond

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    Helped when no one else could

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  • Take care, Anderson. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I have a 5 year old who wants to send good wishes too

    • Take care, Anderson. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Blessings.

      • Keep going, Anderson. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Thinking of Ribeirão Preto!

        • You're not alone, Anderson. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Multan.

          • You're not alone. Wishing Murilo a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Love from Kasarani

            • Take care, Anderson. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier!

              • Good luck, Anderson. Shared it with a few friends

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