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Dignity in old age: caring for Michele

Help Michele stay in his own home with four months of part-time care.

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Michele Barone
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Palermo
I'm caring for me, who's 79. After a diagnosis of dementia Michele can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Michele desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Michele worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $2,850 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $1,950 • Medication and prescriptions: $460 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $140 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $300 If you can't give, please share this page. It does reach people.

Updates from Michele

  1. We're at 9% thanks to 8 of you. the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. More news soon.

  • Malathi R. Narayanan 🇮🇳 · $5

    “Best of luck. Thought of Michele all day after reading this.”

  • Sabina Fatema Khatun 🇧🇩 · $10

    “Hope this covers a bit of it. - Chattogram”

  • Henrique Marques 🇧🇷 · $30

    “Good luck. My colleague told me about this one. - Campinas”

  • Ebo Patrick Owusu 🇬🇭 · $100

    “From Obuasi with love.”

  • Divya A. Maurya 🇮🇳 · $25
  • Fatma Cansu Çetin 🇹🇷 · $25

    “All the best. Hope this covers a bit of it. - İzmir”

  • Noah K. Gutierrez 🇺🇸 · $500
  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $50
  • Kartika Intan Harahap 🇮🇩 · $10
  • Omondi Kevin Kato 🇹🇿 · $15
  • Anyango Hellen Waweru 🇰🇪 · $200

    “Thought of Michele all day after reading this.”

  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $20

    “Take care of yourselves. - Fresno”

  • Janet Martinez 🇬🇧 · $25

    “You got this. From Glasgow with love.”

  • Karina B. Cordero 🇲🇽 · $50

    “Please keep us posted. - Ciudad de México”

  • Werner Schmid 🇩🇪 · $20

    “Keep your head up. Thought of Michele all day after reading this. - Munich”

  • Josiah T. Rowe 🇺🇸 · $9

    “Be well. Been where you're, it gets better. - Corpus Christi”

  • Huda Maryam Zidan 🇪🇬 · $25
  • Anonymous 🇺🇸 · $25

    “You got this. I'm in Anaheim, thinking of you.”

  • Lawrence Solomon Yamoah 🇬🇭 · $15
  • Danjuma Kingsley Raji 🇳🇬 · $59

Reviews

3.2(15 reviews)

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  • Thanks for sharing this, Michele. Your post was clear and honest

    • Thanks for sharing this. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.

      • any chance of seeing the care agency's quote?

        • Michele BaroneOwnerAnswerAddress verifiedPhoto verified

          I sent the care agency's quote in when I posted. I'll upload a redacted copy this week. Happy to explain more.

      • Best of luck, Michele. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Love from Córdoba.

        • Hope things get better soon. Hope you get there. Thinking of Palermo.

          • Good luck, Michele. Hope the doctors have good news. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Blessings.

            • Wishing you the best. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Wish I lived closer to Çankaya so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Palermo.

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