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Dignity in old age: caring for Mehul

Mehul can't afford the care He needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $850.

🇮🇳 Pune, Maharashtra, India1,682 views
Girish P. Dave
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Pune
I'm caring for my father, who's 74. After a diagnosis of dementia Mehul can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Mehul desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Mehul worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $850 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $650 • Medication and prescriptions: $90 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $50 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $60 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Girish

Updates from Girish

  1. 18% there. I made the first payment toward mobility aids and bathroom adaptations. Thank you.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($229 in total) we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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    “Thinking of you. Hope you get the rest soon. - Guadalupe”

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  • Thinking of you, Girish. Hope you get there. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. God bless.

    • praying for you, Girish. It takes guts to ask. Well done!

      • So sorry you're going through this, Girish. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side.

        • You're not alone. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Blessings.

          • Thanks for sharing this, Girish. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did.

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