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Dignity in old age: caring for Lourdes

Lourdes, 84, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $2,000 for a carer and medicines.

🇺🇸 Los Angeles, California, United States3,671 views
Lucía K. Díaz
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Los Angeles
I'm caring for my mother, who's 84. After a heart attack Lourdes can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Lourdes desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Lourdes worked all of her life as a factory worker, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $2,000 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $740 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $520 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $740 I hope life is good to you.

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    “Thinking of you. My colleague told me about this one. - Adelaide”

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    “Hope it all works out. Thought of Lourdes all day after reading this. - Leipzig”

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    “Get well soon. This is from my last paycheck, glad to do it. - Dayton”

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    “Keep your head up. Only $5 but hope it helps. - Narayanganj”

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  • Take care, Lucía. It takes guts to ask. Well done. I hope January is when things finally get easier. Thinking of Los Angeles.

    • Wishing you peace, Lucía. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Eldoret!

      • rooting for you, Lucía. Hope you get there. Blessings.

        • Wishing you peace, Lucía. Your post was clear and honest. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. All the best.

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