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Dignity in old age: caring for Liliana

Help Liliana stay in her own home with four months of part-time care.

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Caroline N. Pearson
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Oakland
I'm caring for my mother, who's 89. After the death of her spouse Liliana can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Liliana desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Liliana worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,500 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $3,250 • Medication and prescriptions: $430 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $440 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $380 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support. - Caroline

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    “Hang in there. Thought of Liliana all day after reading this. - Hamilton”

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    “Blessings. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Denver”

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    “All the best. My colleague told me about this one. - San Diego”

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    “Praying for you. Only $5 but hope it helps. - Reading”

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    “Praying for you. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Khulna”

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    “All the best. Hope the November deadline works out. - Derry”

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    “All the best. Thought of Liliana all day after reading this.”

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  • Liam S. Hernandez🇳🇿Verified donor
    Quick response, great follow-up

    I was nervous about reaching out, but this person made me feel comfortable and supported from the very first interaction. Their help was invaluable.

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  • This could happen to any of us. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Love from Riyadh.

    • Good luck, Caroline. This could happen to any of us. I'll check back for the next update. God bless.

      • Sending love. Looking forward to the next update. We're a small family in Obuasi but we're thinking of you.

        • Sending love, Caroline. Your post was clear and honest. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. God bless.

          • Take care, Caroline. Your post was clear and honest. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Thinking of Oakland!

            • wishing Liliana a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Sent it to 5 people at work

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