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Dignity in old age: caring for Javier

Javier, 93, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $1,200 for a carer and medicines.

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Valentina C. Rojas
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Celaya
I'm caring for my father, who's 93. After a fall and hip fracture Javier can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Javier desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Javier worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,200 goes: โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $175 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $155 โ€ข Part-time carer (six months): $870 Thanks for being kind about this. - Valentina

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  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ญ ยท $20
  • Sajib Karim Rahman ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $20
  • Yogesh K. Patil ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $200

    โ€œFrom my family to yours. Only $200 but hope it helps. - Thaneโ€

  • Nuria R. Domรญnguez ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ ยท $20
  • Easton G. Fowler ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $10

    โ€œGod bless. Thought of Javier all day after reading this. - Austinโ€

  • Revital Yael Amar ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $10

    โ€œHope it all works out. From Jerusalem with love. - Jerusalemโ€

  • Emiliano E. Orozco ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $100
  • Angela Lucia Martinelli ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น ยท $10
  • Dimas Ilham Mahendra ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉ ยท $50

    โ€œFrom my family to yours. Only $50 but hope it helps. - Kediriโ€

  • Musa Henry Falana ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $25
  • Revathi J. Raman ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $50

    โ€œYou got this. Thought of Javier all day after reading this.โ€

  • Uche Musa Ekwueme ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $10
  • Emil Dietrich ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช ยท $10

    โ€œEvery little bit. Only $10 but hope it helps. - Nurembergโ€

  • Sani Segun Adebayo ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $100

    โ€œGet well soon. Only $100 but hope it helps. - Enuguโ€

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  • Sandra Linda Abdul๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญVerified donor
    Quick response, great follow-up

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

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    Outstanding person

    I can't speak highly enough about this helper. They were available when I needed them, supportive when I felt lost, and practical in their solutions.

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    Delivered on promises

    I was going through a tough time and this person's support was invaluable. They didn't judge, just helped. That kind of genuine compassion is rare these days.

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  • Hang in there, Valentina. Gave what I could, wish it was more. After 20 years in accounting I know how hard it's to ask for anything.

    • Good luck, Valentina. Wishing Javier a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Thinking of Celaya

      • Rooting for you, Valentina. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Blessings.

        • take care, Valentina. This could happen to any of us. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Take care.

          • good luck, Valentina. This could happen to any of us. Take care.

            $635 raised of $1,200

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