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Dignity in old age: caring for Iván

Help Iván stay in his own home with six months of part-time care.

🇪🇸 Seville, Andalusia, Spain895 views
Armando W. Peña
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Seville
I'm caring for my father, who's 83. After a fall and hip fracture Iván can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Iván desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Iván worked all of his life as a shopkeeper, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $2,850 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $2,200 • Medication and prescriptions: $250 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $195 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $205 Thanks for reading all this. - Armando

Updates from Armando

  1. Thank you all. We're at 6% now ($174). I'm honestly stunned. we've started the first stage.

  2. Small update. $68 so far, we've started the first stage.

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    “Thought of Iván all day after reading this.”

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  • how is Iván doing now?

    • Hope it all works out. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Blessings.

      • can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Seville.

        • Armando W. PeñaOwnerAnswer

          Thank you. If you're in Seville I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Appreciate you taking the time.

      • Thinking of you. Looking forward to the next update. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Thinking of Seville

        • keep going. Hope the doctors have good news. Love from Gqeberha.

          • Thinking of you, Armando. Shared this with my family. Sent it to 9 people at work. Thinking of Seville.

            • thinking of you. Get well soon. Wish I lived closer to Bogor so I could bring a meal. Thinking of Seville

              • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Iván.

                • Armando W. PeñaOwnerAnswer

                  Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. part-time carer (six months) comes first ($2,200) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Fair thing to want to know.

              • Padma P. YadavID verified

                You're not alone. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double.

                • This could happen to any of us. Greetings from Biratnagar.

                  • Sending strength, Armando. Shared it with a few friends

                    • Thinking of you, Armando. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double. Thinking of Seville.

                      • it takes guts to ask. Well done. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. All the best.

                        $453.50 raised of $2,850

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