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Dignity in old age: caring for Ishita

Ishita can't afford the care She needs after a diagnosis of dementia; we're asking for $800.

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Ajay G. Oberoi
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Howrah
I'm caring for my mother, who's 74. After a diagnosis of dementia Ishita can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Ishita desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Ishita worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $800 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $630 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $85 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $85 Thanks for reading all this.

Updates from Ajay

  1. Small update. $610 so far, I made the first payment toward hospital bed and mattress rental.

  2. Small update. $125 so far, I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts.

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  • Thanks for sharing this. Your post was clear and honest. After 15 years in accounting I know how hard it's to ask for anything. God bless

    • keep going. Hope the doctors have good news. God bless.

      • everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Greetings from Hồ Chí Minh City.

        • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Howrah!

          • Ajay G. OberoiOwnerAnswer

            Thank you. If you're in Howrah I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Happy to explain more.

        • you're not alone, Ajay. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Don't give up!

          • best of luck. Hope the doctors have good news. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust.

            • keep going. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Love from Gaya

              • Hope it all works out, Ajay. Shared it with a few friends. My late mom used to say help given quietly counts double

                • Hope the doctors have good news. I hope December is when things finally get easier. Love from Mumbai

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