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Dignity in old age: caring for Heitor

Heitor can't afford the care He needs after a stroke last May; we're asking for $950.

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Manuela Rafaela Silva
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Uberlândia
I'm caring for my father, who's 82. After a stroke last May Heitor can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Heitor desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Heitor worked all of his life as a seamstress, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $950 goes: • Part-time carer (four months): $680 • Medication and prescriptions: $100 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $60 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $110 Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly. - Manuela

Updates from Manuela

  1. Small update. $165 so far, I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. - Manuela

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  • Wishing you the best. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'm in accounting myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

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