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Dignity in old age: caring for Harper

Help Harper stay in her own home with eight months of part-time care.

🇨🇦 Gatineau, Quebec, Canada4,140 views
Joshua Carpenter
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Gatineau
I'm caring for my mother, who's 86. After worsening Parkinson's disease Harper can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Harper desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Harper worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $4,300 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $440 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $220 • Part-time carer (eight months): $3,640 Every share and every dollar helps. - Joshua

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  • Wishing you peace, Joshua. Shared it with a few friends. Don't give up. God bless.

    • Can I help in a way that isn't money? I'm near Gatineau

      • Joshua CarpenterOwnerAnswer

        Thank you. If you're in Gatineau I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Let me know if you want more detail.

    • Wishing you peace, Joshua. Shared this with my family. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

      • Wishing you the best. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Greetings from Chandler.

        • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Harper.

          • Joshua CarpenterOwnerAnswer

            Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. medication and prescriptions comes first ($440) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Let me know if you want more detail.

        • Dinda Tika SalimPhoto verified

          Praying for you, Joshua. Hope you get there. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. God bless

          • any update on how things are going in Gatineau?

            • stay strong. Wishing Harper a smooth procedure and a full recovery. Don't give up. All the best

              • Wishing you peace, Joshua. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier.

                • Wishing you the best. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Sent it to 22 people at work. Greetings from Lagos.

                  • Stay strong. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I have a 12 year old who wants to send good wishes too. God bless

                    • So sorry you're going through this. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Blessings.

                      • Gave what I could, wish it was more. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Blessings.

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