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Dignity in old age: caring for Hadley

Hadley can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last August; we're asking for $4,500.

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I'm caring for my mother, who's 74. After a stroke last August Hadley can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Hadley desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Hadley worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $4,500 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $760 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $360 • Part-time carer (six months): $3,380 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it. - Micah

Updates from Micah

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($2,118 in total) we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($2,947 in total) I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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    “Thought of Hadley all day after reading this. - Dundee”

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    “From my family to yours. Only $10 but hope it helps. - Busan”

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    “You got this. Thought of Hadley all day after reading this. - San Diego”

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  • This could happen to any of us. Don't give up. Love from Kaduna!

    • Hope this works out for you. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Thinking of London.

      • Wishing Hadley a smooth procedure and a full recovery. All the best.

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