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Dignity in old age: caring for Gregory

Gregory, 77, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $5,400 for a carer and medicines.

🇺🇸 San Jose, California, United States3,011 views
Gregory T. Nelson
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San Jose
I'm caring for me, who's 77. After the death of his spouse Gregory can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Gregory desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Gregory worked all of his life as a farmer, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for six months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,400 goes: • Part-time carer (six months): $4,500 • Medication and prescriptions: $340 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $230 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $330 You're what makes this possible, and I'll never forget it. - Gregory

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    “Be well. Only $25 but hope it helps. - Mombasa”

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    “Good luck. Thought of Gregory all day after reading this. - Córdoba”

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    “Thinking of you. Only $10 but hope it helps. - Kozhikode”

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    “Praying for you. Only $10 but hope it helps. - Tehuacán”

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    “God bless. Hope the July deadline works out. - Nottingham”

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  • keep going, Gregory. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Take care.

    • Sending good thoughts. Hope you get there. Greetings from Hanoi.

      • wishing you the best, Gregory. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. My sister had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. God bless.

        • Gül GüneşID verified

          get well soon. My neighbor in Manchester donated after I showed her your page. Greetings from Manchester.

          • Best of luck, Gregory. Hope you get there. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

            • rooting for you, Gregory. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick

              • Thinking of you and your family, Gregory. Shared it with a few friends

                • Best of luck. Looking forward to the next update. My mother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home.

                  • It takes guts to ask. Well done. I'm in construction myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Love from Uberlândia.

                    • Mia D. FranklinID verifiedPhoto verified

                      Hang in there. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Sent it to 21 people at work. Thinking of San Jose!

                      • Praying for you. Hope this works out for you. I'm in customer support myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Take care!

                        • Zenaida L. QuizonPhoto verified

                          Thinking of you and your family, Gregory. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day

                          • Hope it all works out. Looking forward to the next update. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day.

                            • Jack W. MedinaAddress verified

                              Stay strong, Gregory. Gave what I could, wish it was more

                              • Elisa Noemi CostaPhoto verified

                                So sorry you're going through this, Gregory. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Greetings from Mekelle.

                                • Praying for you. Looking forward to the next update. I have a 17 year old who wants to send good wishes too.

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