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Dignity in old age: caring for Gihan

Gihan, 84, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $850 for a carer and medicines.

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Hasitha Nimal Abeysekera
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Negombo
I'm caring for my father, who's 84. After a heart attack Gihan can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Gihan desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Gihan worked all of his life as a schoolteacher, and raised 2 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $850 goes: • Part-time carer (three months): $570 • Medication and prescriptions: $115 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $70 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $95 With deep gratitude, Hasitha

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  • stay strong, Hasitha. I hope things turn around soon. Don't give up. God bless.

    • wishing you the best. Hope the doctors have good news. Put this on a community board in San Miguel de Tucumán this morning.

      • Carla Alessia VitaleQuestionPhoto verified

        is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Gihan

        • It's all in the list in the story. part-time carer (three months) is the big one at $570, I'll post a receipt when it's paid.

      • so sorry you're going through this. Hope you get there. Don't give up

        • Umesh J. ChopraQuestionID verified

          is there anything that isn't money that would help Gihan?

          • Good luck, Hasitha. Get well soon. We lost years of savings to something like this so I get it. Thinking of Negombo

            • Wishing you the best, Hasitha. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Greetings from Gliwice

              • Your post was clear and honest. I'll check back for the next update. Love from Bangkok.

                • Hang in there. Wishing Gihan a smooth procedure and a full recovery. I have a 6 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Mapo.

                  • Hope things get better soon. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Love from Munich.

                    • Praying for you, Hasitha. Get well soon. Love from Wollongong.

                      • Megumi YamashitaAddress verified

                        praying for you. Hope you get there. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Take care.

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