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Dignity in old age: caring for Folake

Folake can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last May; we're asking for $500.

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Festus Aliyu
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I'm caring for my mother, who's 92. After a stroke last May Folake can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Folake desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Folake worked all of her life as a schoolteacher, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $500 goes: โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $90 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $65 โ€ข Part-time carer (three months): $345 Whatever you can give, even just sharing this page, means a lot.

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  • Wei XiaoQuestion

    Is there anything that isn't money that would help Folake?

    • Festus AliyuOwnerAnswer

      Sharing the link is the biggest thing. And if you know anything about mobility aids and bathroom adaptations, advice is welcome too. Good question.

  • have you tried the local city council office? They sometimes help with part of this

    • Thinking of you. Get well soon. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. All the best

      • Best of luck, Festus. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest.

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