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Dignity in old age: caring for Fitri

Fitri, 85, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $550 for a carer and medicines.

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Fitri Intan Gunawan
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Kediri
I'm caring for me, who's 85. After a stroke last November Fitri can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Fitri desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Fitri worked all of her life as a carpenter, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $550 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (four months): $300 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $135 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $60 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $55 With deep gratitude, Fitri

Updates from Fitri

  1. 33% there. I made the first payment toward part-time carer. Thank you.

  2. Quick update: $119 raised so far (22%). the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  3. Thank you all. We're at 9% now ($50). I'm honestly stunned. the plan for mobility aids and bathroom adaptations is now scheduled.

  • Camila Adriana Borges ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $30
  • Mahesh K. Shukla ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $5

    โ€œHappy to help. Hope this covers a bit of it. - Kochiโ€

  • Elaine Lorena Coelho ๐Ÿ‡ง๐Ÿ‡ท ยท $100
  • Addison Schneider ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $18

    โ€œThought of Fitri all day after reading this.โ€

  • Petra Kuiper ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $43
  • Evans Mugisha Kyagulanyi ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $5
  • Derek J. Guzman ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $64
  • Vera Yana Smirnov ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡บ ยท $10
  • Niels Hermans ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ยท $20
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $20

    โ€œGood luck. Hope the March deadline works out. - Muzaffarpurโ€

Reviews

3.8(5 reviews)

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  • Kshitija W. Gandhi๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณVerified donor
    Exactly what I needed

    Couldn't have asked for better support. They listened carefully, understood my situation deeply, and provided thoughtful advice that actually worked. Thank you so much.

  • Diana Lidia Savchenko๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ฆVerified donor
    Very responsive and caring

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

  • Ika Indah Harahap๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฉVerified helper
    Exceeded expectations

    I was skeptical at first, but this person proved to be reliable and genuinely interested in helping. Their response time was incredible and their solutions were practical.

  • Brooks K. Stanley๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธVerified helper
    Helped when no one else could

    This helper is honest and transparent about what they can do. They didn't overpromise, but they did deliver excellent results. I would definitely trust them again.

  • Serenity H. Brown๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธVerified donor
    Would recommend to anyone

    The difference this person made in my life cannot be overstated. They were patient, kind, and persistent in helping me find solutions. Truly exceptional.

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  • Lincoln L. HarveyVerified organizationPhoto verified

    Thinking of you, Fitri. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. After 24 years in public service I know how hard it's to ask for anything. Thinking of Kediri.

    • You're not alone, Fitri. Your post was clear and honest.

      • Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Read this on the bus and kept thinking about it all day. Love from Udaipur.

        • Rooting for you. Shared it with a few friends. I have a 5 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Onitsha.

          • Hope it all works out. Shared this with my family. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Take care

            • Wishing you the best. I hope things turn around soon. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too

              • Thinking of you. Wishing Fitri a smooth procedure and a full recovery. God bless

                • I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Wish I lived closer to Cairo so I could bring a meal.

                  $315 raised of $550

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