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Dignity in old age: caring for Dwi

Dwi cannot afford the care He needs after a stroke last December; we are asking for $150.

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Aditya Kurniawan Tanoto
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I'm caring for my father, who's 86. After a stroke last December Dwi can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Dwi desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Dwi worked all of his life as a factory worker, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $150 goes: • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $35 • Medication and prescriptions: $85 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $30 With deep gratitude, Aditya

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  • is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Dwi.

    • Aditya Kurniawan TanotoOwnerAnswerID verified

      Sure. The biggest one is hospital bed and mattress rental, $35. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Ask me anything else.

  • Hope things get better soon, Aditya. Shared it with a few friends. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Love from Jabalpur

    • Wishing you peace, Aditya. Hope you get there. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Blessings.

      • stay strong, Aditya. Hope the doctors have good news. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. Greetings from Çankaya

        • I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Don't give up. Love from Kathmandu.

          • Wishing Dwi a smooth procedure and a full recovery.

            • hope things get better soon, Aditya. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'll check back for the next update. Take care.

              • Wishing you peace. Get well soon. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like. All the best

                • Dinesh D. NaiduAddress verified

                  You're not alone. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from San Diego

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