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Dignity in old age: caring for Dola
Dola can't afford the care She needs after a stroke last September; we're asking for $4,100.
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I'm caring for my mother, who's 75. After a stroke last September Dola can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Dola desperately wants to stay at home.
I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer.
Dola worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back.
Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference.
The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices.
Where the $4,100 goes:
• Part-time carer (three months): $3,350
• Medication and prescriptions: $340
• Hospital bed and mattress rental: $200
• Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $210
I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.
Updates from Rubel
We're at 62% thanks to 45 of you. the first invoice got paid this week. More news soon.
Update from Derry: we've started the first stage. We're at 32% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.
- Bella N. Sanchez 🇺🇸 · $1,000
“You got this. Only $1,000 but hope it helps.”
- Hiền Giang Huynh 🇻🇳 · $100
- Ruslan Andriy Osipov 🇺🇦 · $100
- Ilham Ahmad Putra 🇮🇩 · $100
- Julián G. Hernández 🇺🇸 · $100
- Radha Bhardwaj 🇬🇧 · $100
- Otieno David Kimaro 🇰🇪 · $100
- Anonymous 🇲🇽 · $100
- Ian H. Whitmore 🇺🇸 · $100
- Grayson A. Garcia 🇺🇸 · $77
- Danuta Ewa Sawicki 🇵🇱 · $75
- Mekdes Marta Haile 🇪🇹 · $75
- Tatiane Heloísa Prado 🇧🇷 · $72
“Thinking of you. - Fortaleza”
- Kinsley K. Parks 🇬🇧 · $69.50
“You got this. Thought of Dola all day after reading this.”
- Geeta P. Tiwari 🇮🇳 · $65
- Xuân Châu Mai 🇦🇺 · $50
- Shawn D. Ross 🇬🇧 · $50
“Thought of Dola all day after reading this. - London”
- Renata G. Vásquez 🇲🇽 · $50
- Luca W. Thornton 🇬🇧 · $50
- Wayne J. Jensen 🇳🇿 · $50
“All the best. Shared with friends too. - Manukau”
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Thinking of you and your family, Rubel. Shared this with my family. I'm in construction myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Blessings.
Rooting for you. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Greetings from Bogra.
Take care, Rubel. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. I'll check back for the next update.
Stay strong. Shared this with my family. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Thinking of Derry.
sending strength, Rubel. This could happen to any of us. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money
Hang in there, Rubel. Shared it with a few friends.
How is Dola doing now?
gave what I could, wish it was more. I have a 11 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Málaga.
Sending love, Rubel. I hope things turn around soon. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. God bless.
sending strength, Rubel. Gave what I could, wish it was more. God bless.
Hang in there. Get well soon. God bless.
Sending love, Rubel. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected.
hang in there, Rubel. Looking forward to the next update. Love from Sylhet.
thanks for sharing this, Rubel. Your post was clear and honest. I have a 11 year old who wants to send good wishes too