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Dignity in old age: caring for Consuelo

Help Consuelo stay in her own home with four months of part-time care.

🇲🇽 Monterrey, Nuevo León, Mexico1,658 views
Esteban B. Pacheco
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Monterrey
I'm caring for my mother, who's 90. After a stroke last August Consuelo can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Consuelo desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Consuelo worked all of her life as a nurse, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for four months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $1,300 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $130 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $210 • Part-time carer (four months): $960 Whatever you can give, even just sharing this page, means a lot. - Esteban

Updates from Esteban

  1. Quick update: $230 raised so far (18%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

  2. Quick update: $809 raised so far (62%). we've started the first stage. Receipts coming as soon as I have them.

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    “Best of luck. Been where you're, it gets better. - Greensboro”

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    “Hope the December deadline works out. - Jessore”

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  • Sending good thoughts, Esteban. Wishing Consuelo a smooth procedure and a full recovery. My neighbor in Rome donated after I showed her your page. Blessings.

    • Hope it all works out, Esteban. I hope things turn around soon. It's not much but it's yours.

      • Praying for you, Esteban. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Blessings

        • Hala Salma BouzidPhoto verified

          Thanks for sharing this. Hope you get there. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Blessings

          • you're not alone, Esteban. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. Greetings from Santos

            • Gave what I could, wish it was more. I hope December is when things finally get easier. Thinking of Monterrey.

              • Thinking of you, Esteban. Your post was clear and honest. It's not much but it's yours. Thinking of Monterrey

                • Sending love. Hope this works out for you. Thinking of Monterrey.

                  • Take care, Esteban. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust

                    • Best of luck. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. We're a small family in San Jose but we're thinking of you. Greetings from San Jose.

                      • good luck, Esteban. Wishing Consuelo a smooth procedure and a full recovery!

                        • Stay strong, Esteban. Hope you get there. Don't give up. God bless.

                          • Sending strength, Esteban. Shared it with a few friends. My cousin had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. God bless.

                            • Thinking of you and your family, Esteban. Hope this works out for you. I'll check back for the next update. Take care.

                              • Get well soon. Please keep us posted. Thinking of Monterrey.

                                • Keep going, Esteban. Gave what I could, wish it was more. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money.

                                  • Hope it all works out. This could happen to any of us. Put this on a community board in Irapuato this morning

                                    • thinking of you and your family, Esteban. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier.

                                      • Take care. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. My husband and I read this together. Thinking of Monterrey.

                                        • Yashodha AmarasingheVerified organization

                                          So sorry you're going through this, Esteban. It takes guts to ask. Well done. My neighbor in Cầu Giấy donated after I showed her your page. God bless.

                                          • Thinking of you, Esteban. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. Thinking of Monterrey

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