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Dignity in old age: caring for Charmaine

Charmaine, 84, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $600 for a carer and medicines.

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Carmela N. Aquino
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Davao City
I'm caring for my mother, who's 84. After a fall and hip fracture Charmaine can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Charmaine desperately wants to stay at home. I work 50 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Charmaine worked all of her life as a farmer, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $600 goes: โ€ข Part-time carer (eight months): $400 โ€ข Medication and prescriptions: $80 โ€ข Hospital bed and mattress rental: $70 โ€ข Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $50 Thank you so much. - Carmela

Updates from Carmela

  1. Update from Davao City: I made the first payment toward mobility aids and bathroom adaptations. We're at 36% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  2. Update from Davao City: we've booked the dates and paid the deposit. We're at 6% of the goal. Thank you for believing in us.

  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $141
  • Amber R. Ruiz ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $75
  • Dinesh E. Rajput ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $50

    โ€œEvery little bit. Hope the March deadline works out. - Noidaโ€

  • Cooper A. Howard ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $30
  • Teresa J. Urbina ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ ยท $25

    โ€œThinking of you. Hope the March deadline works out. - Ciudad de Mรฉxicoโ€

  • Raghavan R. Anand ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ ยท $25
  • Beth M. Campbell ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $20
  • Sunita C. Rawat ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง ยท $10
  • Temitope Jumoke Igwe ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ ยท $10
  • Anonymous ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น ยท $10

    โ€œThought of Charmaine all day after reading this. - Latinaโ€

  • Julieta F. Nava ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ ยท $5

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2.7(7 reviews)

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    Genuine person with a big heart

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

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    Exactly what I needed

    The help I received was exactly what was described and more. This person follows through on their commitments and genuinely cares about making a positive impact.

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    Great help in a difficult time

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    Very responsive and caring

    The help I received was exactly what was described and more. This person follows through on their commitments and genuinely cares about making a positive impact.

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    Honest and trustworthy

    I had a complex problem and this person helped me navigate it step by step. Their expertise combined with their kindness made all the difference.

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