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Dignity in old age: caring for Bikash

Bikash, 94, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $650 for a carer and medicines.

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Kamala Durga Subedi
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Lalitpur
I'm caring for my father, who's 94. After a heart attack Bikash can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Bikash desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Bikash worked all of his life as a factory worker, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $650 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $520 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $40 • Medication and prescriptions: $90 I hope life is good to you. - Kamala

Updates from Kamala

  1. Small update. $658 so far, I made the first payment toward part-time carer.

  2. Wanted to say thank you properly. 32% funded and I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts.

  3. Good news. Because of your gifts ($100 in total) the plan for hospital bed and mattress rental is now scheduled. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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  • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Bikash.

    • Kamala Durga SubediOwnerAnswerPhoto verified

      Sure. The biggest one is part-time carer (eight months), $520. The rest is in the list at the bottom of the post and I'll upload receipts as I pay each one. Thanks for asking.

  • shared this with my family. My daughter saw me on my phone and now she wants to give her pocket money. Greetings from Alexandria.

    • Rooting for you, Kamala. I hope things turn around soon. Don't give up. Take care

      • thanks for sharing this. I hope things turn around soon. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Take care.

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