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Dignity in old age: caring for Angel

Angel, 89, needs daily care to stay at home, and the family is raising $5,150 for a carer and medicines.

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Christian W. Oliver
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Hialeah
I'm caring for my father, who's 89. After a diagnosis of dementia Angel can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Angel desperately wants to stay at home. I work 25 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Angel worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 4 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. The carer will be employed through a registered agency and paid directly. I'll share the agency invoices. Where the $5,150 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $3,500 • Medication and prescriptions: $750 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $280 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $620 Ask me anything below before you decide. I'd rather you were sure.

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    “All the best. Thought of Angel all day after reading this. - Mumbai”

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    “God bless. Shared with friends too. - Saint-Denis”

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    “Best of luck. I'm in Juiz de Fora, thinking of you.”

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  • Blessing Bukola RajiPhoto verified

    Praying for you, Christian. Get well soon. Blessings

    • praying for you, Christian. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Please keep us posted. Blessings.

      • Zainab Farah HamidPhoto verified

        wishing you peace. I hope things turn around soon. We're a small family in Mandaue but we're thinking of you

        • best of luck, Christian. Your post was clear and honest

          • so sorry you're going through this, Christian. Hope you get there

            • Thanks for sharing this, Christian. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend.

              • Rooting for you, Christian. It takes guts to ask. Well done. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. God bless

                • Hang in there. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Please keep us posted

                  • best of luck. This could happen to any of us. Don't be hard on yourself for asking.

                    • Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. I went through something like this 14 years ago and strangers helped me out. All the best.

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