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# I'm asking for a chance to get back on my feet after a serious financial mistake
Hello everyone,
This is probably one of the most difficult things I've ever had to write. I'm not used to asking strangers for help, and honestly, I'm deeply embarrassed that I've reached a point where I feel I have to.
I'm 29 years old, from the Czech Republic, and I work as a programmer. Over the past year, I became deeply committed to learning day trading. What started as an ambition to build a better future gradually turned into a series of financial mistakes that I struggled to recognise and stop.
I experienced some success along the way, including profitable periods and several payouts. Unfortunately, I repeatedly made the same mistakes: poor risk management, emotional decisions, trying to recover losses, and putting more money into trading when I should have stepped back.
Instead of accepting my losses, I kept convincing myself that the next month would be different. I took out personal loans and used credit cards to support this journey, believing that future profits would allow me to repay everything.
That never happened.
Every setback created more financial pressure, and that pressure led to even worse decisions. What began as an attempt to improve my life eventually became a debt spiral that has left me owing approximately **$50,000**.
The situation has now become extremely difficult. After paying rent, utilities, food, and my monthly debt repayments, I have almost nothing left. I am employed and doing my best to meet my responsibilities, but I have reached a point where even covering my next month's living expenses has become a serious challenge.
I have recently come to terms with the fact that I cannot continue living this way. I need to step away from trading, stop chasing losses, and focus entirely on rebuilding my financial stability.
## My immediate goal: $10,000
I'm hoping to raise **$10,000 as an initial goal** to help me get through the coming month, cover essential living expenses, and make a meaningful start toward reducing the debt that has become so overwhelming.
This would give me some breathing room to focus on my job, work with my creditors, and establish a realistic plan to repay what I owe without taking on more debt.
My overall debt is approximately $50,000, so I know that this initial goal will not solve everything. If I manage to reach it, I hope to continue working toward reducing the remaining debt over the following months.
Every contribution, no matter how small, would make a difference.
## What the money would help cover
- Immediate rent and essential living expenses.
- Outstanding personal loans and credit card obligations.
- Reducing the financial pressure that has made it increasingly difficult to get back on my feet.
I am willing to provide documentation and evidence of my financial situation to anyone who would like to verify my circumstances. I also intend to seek professional debt advice and work with my creditors to find a sustainable way forward.
## Why I'm asking strangers for help
My parents have already helped me as much as they reasonably can, but they are not in a position to take on this burden themselves. I've used my savings and exhausted the financial options I had available.
Asking strangers for help is incredibly uncomfortable. I know there are people facing circumstances far worse than mine, and I completely understand that nobody owes me anything.
I also know that the situation I am in is largely the result of my own decisions. I'm not trying to avoid responsibility or blame anyone else. I simply want to be honest about what happened and ask whether anyone might be willing to help me find a way out.
I am making a commitment to step away from live trading and stop putting myself in situations where I risk losing even more money. I don't want to borrow more, chase losses, or rely on the hope of one big payout to fix everything.
I want to return to living within my means, focus on my programming career, repay my obligations, and gradually rebuild the life I had before this happened.
If you are unable to donate, sharing this fundraiser with someone who might be willing to help would mean just as much to me.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story. I genuinely appreciate any support, kindness, or encouragement. It means more than I can express.
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You sure this legit?
Yes I can verify myself or prove my situation. Feel free to ask anything!
Praying for a clear way through this debt and for peace as you rebuild steadier habits.
Thank you, hopefuly i can clean up this mess...
Scripture says the Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and quiet financial strain counts as a real burden. Holding you and your family in prayer.
Thank you for your prayer, much appreciated.
Choosing to walk away from trading and put your job and creditors first is the right turn. Praying that decision holds and the pressure eases.
It takes a lot to write this plainly about your own choices, and that honesty counts for something. Hoping next month's expenses are covered and the payments become manageable.
Thank you for kind words Wellington. I hope so too.
Owning the mistakes out loud is harder than most people realise, and you did it here. Praying the pressure eases, your work stays steady, and the repayment plan becomes something you can live with.
Thanks for your prayer Muhammad, hopefuly it will be answered, bless you. DV