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Companionship wanted: Howard's chess and a cup of tea

Howard lives alone and has no family nearby; a weekly hour of conversation would transform the week.

🇺🇸 Durham, North Carolina, United States712 views
Kai B. Torres
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Durham
I'm writing for my neighbor Howard, who's 79. Howard lives alone in Durham, and lost a lifelong friend last year. The nearest family lives on the other side of the country. Howard loves chess, and would enjoy someone to chat with. An hour a week, perhaps on Thursday afternoon, would mean the world. We can also arrange a phone call if you can't visit in person. All visitors will be introduced by me and I'll be there at the first meeting. I'll share references and, if you'd like, a short orientation from the local befriending charity. No special skills are needed - just kindness and patience. I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.
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1 hour a week
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In person in Durham
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  • Lawrence Cooper 🇬🇧

    I live about 7 km from Durham. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need. Flexible on timing.

  • Anthony Vasseur 🇫🇷

    I live about 14 km from Durham. I can help at the weekend, tell me what you need. Flexible on timing.

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  • Thinking of you and your family, Kai. Hope this works out for you.

    • Wishing you the best. Looking forward to the next update. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Thinking of Durham.

      • Hope things get better soon, Kai. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I went through something like this 8 years ago and strangers helped me out. Take care.

        • Wishing you the best, Kai. Hope you get there. Sent it to 3 people at work. Take care.

          • Hope things get better soon, Kai. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Blessings

            • Stay strong, Kai. Your post was clear and honest. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Thinking of Durham!

              • Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. Please keep us posted. Love from Jeddah.

                • Good luck. Your post was clear and honest. Our whole street has been following this since the weekend. Greetings from Muzaffarpur.

                  • Take care, Kai. Shared it with a few friends.

                    • Thinking of you and your family, Kai. Hope the doctors have good news. Please keep us posted.

                      • wishing you the best, Kai. It takes guts to ask. Well done. We're a small family in Faisalabad but we're thinking of you. Blessings

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