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Care for Mason, 78: help cover a carer and medication in San Diego

Help Mason stay in his own home with three months of part-time care.

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Denise S. Stanley
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San Diego
I'm caring for my father, who's 78. After a fall and hip fracture Mason can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Mason desperately wants to stay at home. I work 40 hours a week and have cut back to look after him, but we need a part-time carer. Mason worked all of his life as a carpenter, and raised 5 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for three months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $3,650 goes: • Medication and prescriptions: $530 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $420 • Part-time carer (three months): $2,700 Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.

Updates from Denise

  1. Wanted to say thank you properly. 25% funded and the plan for part-time carer is now scheduled.

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    “Take care of yourselves. Thought of Mason all day after reading this. - Novosibirsk”

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    “Wishing you the best. Thought of Mason all day after reading this. - Spanish Town”

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  • take care. Looking forward to the next update. Greetings from Liverpool!

    • Sending good thoughts, Denise. Hope you get there.

      • Thanks for sharing this. Shared it with a few friends. I have a 17 year old who wants to send good wishes too. Greetings from Geelong.

        • wishing you the best, Denise. Reading this made my day a bit heavier but I'm glad I did. We had a similar scare last year, I know what it feels like.

          • Sending good thoughts, Denise. I hope things turn around soon. Don't be hard on yourself for asking. Greetings from Coventry.

            • Thinking of you and your family. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Blessings!

              • Keep going, Denise. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

                • Hang in there, Denise. Look after yourselves too, caregivers need rest. My colleague had a similar thing happen so this one hit home

                  • Sending good thoughts. Hope you get there. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Greetings from Cleveland.

                    • Take care. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. Thinking of San Diego

                      • hope things get better soon, Denise. I hope things turn around soon. I'm in logistics myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you

                        • Sending good thoughts, Denise. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry

                          • Sending love. I work in healthcare and wanted you to know people are on your side. I hope October is when things finally get easier. Thinking of San Diego

                            • Gave what I could, wish it was more. I have a 16 year old who wants to send good wishes too. All the best!

                              • Wishing you the best, Denise. This could happen to any of us. I'll check back for the next update

                                • Sending good thoughts, Denise. Gave what I could, wish it was more.

                                  • Hope this works out for you. It's not much but it's yours. Thinking of San Diego

                                    • Best of luck, Denise. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. All the best.

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