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Care for Fleur, 82: help cover a carer and medication in Nijmegen

Help Fleur stay in her own home with eight months of part-time care.

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Isa Lisa Jacobs
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Nijmegen
I'm caring for my mother, who's 82. After a diagnosis of dementia Fleur can no longer manage alone. A nursing home would cost far more than we have, and Fleur desperately wants to stay at home. I work 30 hours a week and have cut back to look after her, but we need a part-time carer. Fleur worked all of her life as a factory worker, and raised 3 children. Now we're trying to give some of that care back. Medication, a hospital bed and a carer for eight months will make a huge difference. Funds cover the carer's wages, medicines, a hospital bed rental and incontinence supplies. Where the $5,100 goes: • Part-time carer (eight months): $3,600 • Medication and prescriptions: $750 • Hospital bed and mattress rental: $240 • Mobility aids and bathroom adaptations: $510 I never thought I'd be the one asking, and I'm grateful for every bit of support.

Updates from Isa

  1. Good news. Because of your gifts ($2,612 in total) I met with the care agency and confirmed the amounts. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

  2. Good news. Because of your gifts ($1,309 in total) I made the first payment toward part-time carer. Still a way to go but it feels less lonely.

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  • Siri Holm🇸🇪Verified donor
    Very responsive and caring

    I was nervous about reaching out, but this person made me feel comfortable and supported from the very first interaction. Their help was invaluable.

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    Changed my perspective

    The help I received was exactly what was described and more. This person follows through on their commitments and genuinely cares about making a positive impact.

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    Quick response, great follow-up

    This is the kind of person who restores your faith in humanity. They didn't just offer help; they genuinely cared about my wellbeing and followed through on every commitment.

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    Truly grateful for the support

    I was struggling and didn't know where to turn. This person stepped in without hesitation and provided exactly what I needed. Their compassion and expertise made all the difference in my life.

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    Restored my faith in humanity

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  • Milan Hendrik De WitQuestionPhoto verified

    Is there anything that isn't money that would help Fleur?

    • Isa Lisa JacobsOwnerAnswer

      Thank you. If you're in Nijmegen I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. Appreciate you taking the time.

  • Sending strength, Isa. Hope the treatment goes smoothly and recovery is quick. Blessings

    • Fitri Mega NugrohoAddress verifiedPhoto verified

      hang in there. Your post was clear and honest. Greetings from London.

      • This could happen to any of us. Thinking of Nijmegen

        • hope it all works out. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I'm in logistics myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you.

          • Keep going, Isa. Hope this works out for you. Don't lose heart. A few weeks ago I was in a hole too and it changed faster than I expected. Blessings.

            • best of luck. Hope you get there. Love from Bonny.

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