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Back on our feet: Leif and three children under 9 in Malmö

Leif and three children under 9 need a bridge to stability after the death of my husband.

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Leif Sandström
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Malmö
After the death of my husband in September, I'm now raising three children under 9 on my own. I work as a care worker, but my income doesn't cover rent, childcare and groceries. I'm retraining as a pharmacy technician in the evenings, which will triple my income by November, but I need to bridge the gap until then. Some weeks I skip meals so my children can eat. I have never asked anyone for help like this before, and I'm doing it for them. Once I finish my course, I'll pay it forward. Money goes toward rent, groceries, after-school care and the cost of my course. I'll give a monthly update with receipts. Where the $2,600 goes: • Rent top-up: $1,100 • Childcare and after-school care: $710 • Groceries and school meals: $410 • Course fees and exam costs: $380 Please ask me anything in the questions section. I'll answer honestly and quickly.

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  • Is there a list of costs somewhere? Just curious how it adds up for Leif.

    • Leif SandströmOwnerAnswerID verified

      Everything on the list is an amount I've been quoted or invoiced. rent top-up comes first ($1,100) and I'll update the page as each thing gets paid. Ask me anything else.

  • take care. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. All the best.

    • Best of luck, Leif. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. I went through something like this 3 years ago and strangers helped me out. God bless.

      • Eman Farah AwanQuestionAddress verified

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        • Thinking of you and your family, Leif. It takes guts to ask. Well done.

          • Wishing you the best, Leif. Hope you get there. My brother had a similar thing happen so this one hit home. Thinking of Malmö

            • is there anything that isn't money that would help Leif?

              • Leif SandströmOwnerAnswerID verified

                Thank you. If you're in Malmö I'll say if something practical comes up. For now sharing this is great. It helps to be asked.

            • a secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. The breakdown of costs made it easy to trust. Greetings from Bhopal.

              • Thanks for sharing this, Leif. Gave what I could, wish it was more. Greetings from Toronto!

                • thinking of you, Leif. Rent stress is the worst. Hope this helps. Take care.

                  • A secure home matters so much. Hope you're settled soon. Love from Mumbai

                    • Praying for you. I've been in a tough spot myself and it does get easier. It's not much but it's yours. God bless

                      • Keep going. I hope your landlord gives you a bit more time while this comes together. I went through something like this 8 years ago and strangers helped me out

                        • Sending good thoughts. I was in a similar spot a few years ago and it did get better. I'm in public service myself and wanted you to know we're cheering for you. Greetings from London.

                          • Sending love. Hope you get there. We're a small family in Thane but we're thinking of you. God bless

                            • hope things get better soon, Leif. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I told my book club about it and three of them are giving too. Love from Kazan

                              • You're not alone. Everyone deserves a bit of help sometimes. Don't be hard on yourself for asking!

                                • Thinking of you, Leif. Shared this with my family. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from London.

                                  • I hope things turn around soon. This is the second need I've supported on here and the first that made me cry. Love from Bakersfield.

                                    • hope it all works out, Leif. Gave what I could, wish it was more. I'll check back for the next update. God bless.

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